Serious I think it’s time we discuss our gatekeeping policy here

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I’m not wanting to be as strict about it as incels.is because of how they’re known to permaban anyone who’s a non-incel no matter how much they contributed before, but looking at the current state of other forums and the lack of appeal this one seems to have, I think it’s important that we talk about this.

Judging by the content I’ve been reading on Blackpill Club, I’ve come to realize that it’s not really an incel forum, but a space for any male who is blackpilled whether he’s incel or not. To those of you who are not aware .club user Kloxx2011 is married and Monkcel managed to get a gf. The latter is a registered member here, and he started posting here less for this reason. He informed me about his first date with this girl back in December, and they didn’t officially become a thing until just a few days ago, but they still haven’t went all the way yet, and he told me he’d self ban if it got to that point. Regardless he remains accepted on .club even if some users over there disapprove. Say what you will about him, but I do appreciate him for being honest at least.

I don’t want to unfairly ban people, but at the same time it is my goal to keep this a safe space for incels. What I would propose is requiring any incel who ascends to self ban. Voluntary account deletion is a 7 day process, and during those 7 days they could say goodbyes, offer advice, etc.
We’d be giving them the opportunity to part on good terms instead of just kick them out, unless they were to start gloating or something. I would like to hear any opinions you guys have concerning this issue.
 

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I almost forgot to spell "It'd" the correct way and was about to post it as "I'd." Now I can't even remember Death at all. Maybe my mind really is starting to go. Bluepillers warned me about this -- saying I actually had to eat healthy, go outside and socialize in order to counteract the effects of this. But I will not change. Not one iota for these destroyers of society and decency.
 

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I almost forgot to spell "It'd" the correct way and was about to post it as "I'd." Now I can't even remember Death at all. Maybe my mind really is starting to go. Bluepillers warned me about this -- saying I actually had to eat healthy, go outside and socialize in order to counteract the effects of this. But I will not change. Not one iota for these destroyers of society and decency.
Never change your way of life for NPCs.
 

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While not grounds for a ban, I will have to confess my simping for Gawr Gura, LillyVinily, and SkepticalPickle. SP dressed up like Raven and did a pitch-perfect impression of her so I coomed.
 

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While not grounds for a ban, I will have to confess my simping for Gawr Gura, LillyVinily, and SkepticalPickle. SP dressed up like Raven and did a pitch-perfect impression of her so I coomed.
At least I think it's not grounds for a ban. Suspension without pay (loli) definitely.
That’s fine by me as long as you’re not simping for Onlyfools.
 

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I don't really care about non-incels, as long as they're blackpilled, not bragging, not talking about their relationships, sex, etc. and aren't denigrating or condescending towards us incels. Wasn't @LTNinTOR a non-incel? He wasn't causing any issues.

There's plenty for black pillers to talk about, without having conversations devolve into relationships and sex, or in particular, experience with them. I would say, as long as there were rules in place to protect incels, it shouldn't matter who joins, as long as they're blackpilled. But I don't make the rules; I only enforce them. And very lazily, at that.
 

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I don't really care about non-incels, as long as they're blackpilled, not bragging, not talking about their relationships, sex, etc. and aren't denigrating or condescending towards us incels. Wasn't @LTNinTOR a non-incel? He wasn't causing any issues.

There's plenty for black pillers to talk about, without having conversations devolve into relationships and sex, or in particular, experience with them. I would say, as long as there were rules in place to protect incels, it shouldn't matter who joins, as long as they're blackpilled. But I don't make the rules; I only enforce them. And very lazily, at that.
Yeah, @LTNinTOR wasn’t technically incel but he was a cool guy to have around. I think guys with some past experience but blackpilled like he was are less likely to be a problem than guys who are actively in relationships, because the latter can never go 24 hours without flexing their status. At least that’s my experience with almost every normie I’ve dealt with IRL.
 

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Yeah, @LTNinTOR wasn’t technically incel but he was a cool guy to have around. I think guys with some past experience but blackpilled like he was are less likely to be a problem than guys who are actively in relationships, because the latter can never go 24 hours without flexing their status. At least that’s my experience with almost every normie I’ve dealt with IRL.
Fair point. I talk to a normie IRL who's very receptive of the black pill, though he doesn't fully subscribe to it, and he doesn't bring up relationships very often, even though he's in one. But he's one individual, and from what I've observed, a very bizarre exception.

I guess it is best to gatekeep those who are in relationships from joining, even if they are supposedly blackpilled. I've always favored erring on the side of caution.
 

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I’m not wanting to be as strict about it as incels.is because of how they’re known to permaban anyone who’s a non-incel no matter how much they contributed before, but looking at the current state of other forums and the lack of appeal this one seems to have, I think it’s important that we talk about this.

Judging by the content I’ve been reading on Blackpill Club, I’ve come to realize that it’s not really an incel forum, but a space for any male who is blackpilled whether he’s incel or not. To those of you who are not aware .club user Kloxx2011 is married and Monkcel managed to get a gf. The latter is a registered member here, and he started posting here less for this reason. He informed me about his first date with this girl back in December, and they didn’t officially become a thing until just a few days ago, but they still haven’t went all the way yet, and he told me he’d self ban if it got to that point. Regardless he remains accepted on .club even if some users over there disapprove. Say what you will about him, but I do appreciate him for being honest at least.

I don’t want to unfairly ban people, but at the same time it is my goal to keep this a safe space for incels. What I would propose is requiring any incel who ascends to self ban. Voluntary account deletion is a 7 day process, and during those 7 days they could say goodbyes, offer advice, etc.
We’d be giving them the opportunity to part on good terms instead of just kick them out, unless they were to start gloating or something. I would like to hear any opinions you guys have concerning this issue.
I err on the side of honesty and transparency. Make a vote, because a one time "ascension" changes little, unless it becomes a more permanent thing. List the details of the so-called "ascension" and put it to a vote perhaps? My two cents, for fairness.
 

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Ban anything that has fakecel energies, any sort of brag(even anything that mentions foid kindness or anecdotes in which they are near to a foid without getting in problems because such stories tend to be from larpERs or undercover IT fakecels who are here to fish for replies) or mention to their current civil status.
It's annoying having to share a space with people who don't face the same grievances as truecels.
 

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